The niggling and demotivating existence of WOBBLES

Our belief that everyone has their lives together, or that those you presume perfect, with the perfect looks, the perfect boyfriend, the perfect job, the perfect life, is in fact just what I said, a belief, a presumption, and not a reality.

Let’s face it, think in your minds now of someone you think has the best, funnest, most incredible life. Those who just have it all, and have it all together. Now think of this person as behind the scenes struggling, maybe it’s because of their financial position, maybe they are having dreaded boyfriend trouble, or maybe they have more than that, maybe a new death in the family per say. The thing is, this most likely is the case, (maybe not so profound in terms of examples!), but everyone has things going on that they hide from those around them. Little or big, it’s inevitable, part of human life.

These ‘wobbles’ we encounter in life, these high times of stress when everything just seems so much-too much. Wobbles of desperation to fly far away, to escape the now. And to be sat calmly on the most picturesque, quaint beach somewhere hot, with the moon glistening on the crashing waves. A place to put this moment of stress and seemingly hell to bed as it were.

God theres been so many wobbles, so many experiences where I just need a break. A break from the overwhelmingness transcending around my whole being. Whether it be a wobble of exam stress, of friendship issues, or, as my readers known, the grief I’m currently experiencing.

It’s the truth- Wobbles are natural, although horrific to experience, leaving you often feeling as though the happiness you’ve been experiencing has all diminished through this new period of unrest. It has to be clarified though, everyone has them. Whatever the scale, whatever life is currently throwing at you, we must collectively remember, the majority of the time, it’s all of us going through these aggravating wobbles. It’s all of us wishing to just simply escape the hardship in front of us. But we must look after ourselves, we must realise it’s a temporary wobble, and a wobble of millions.

Peace Out!

Annongirl20

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